Internet Dating: pros and cons.

Yesterday evening I watched TV (sometimes it happens but not so often as I prefer Internet entertainment). And there was broadcasted a program devoted to Internet dating. The core idea of this program (as I understood) that Internet dating is evil and you’ll get nothing but real problems. But I can not agree with it. Of course, there are some problems associated with internet dating, mainly with it’s another segment as “internet briding“ but we are not discussing it (if want to find a wife online you’d better visit this blog: http://sisers.blogspot.com/). But here we discuss internet dating for flirt, friendship etc.

One thing I can advise you to safe your time, money and nerves: always think twice before you do something and internet is not an exception.

Next time we’ll continue our internet dating course.

Make yourself a superstar

Have you ever dreamed to be popular as Hollywood actors or pop singers? As for me when I was younger I dreamed to be like Robert DeNiro. But then I grew older and understood that everyone is a superstar and the only thing you should do to become popular is to inform others from your community that you are a unique personality. I’m not a philosopher, I’m just the man who knows the secret ;).
Ok, now let’s continue our course of successful internet dating. In this article we are going to discuss what to write in the field where you are to provide a brief information about yourself. I hope you are not too shy to write the truth about yourself but we will do a bit different thing. Frankly speaking there are three basic ways how you can fill this field:

• write down boring info about your life with common facts;


• quote the words of a clever person (it better if a quotation is not widely known);


• write down some exciting info about yourself to make a girl feel that she wants to become a friend with you.

As for me I always choose the third variant sometimes mixed with the second variant. The first variant can be chosen if you have enough time and can wait for a long time till someone will find you. But if read this article I’m sure you want to find a babe as soon as possible that’s why we choose the third variant.

You can tell me: “It’s easy to say ‘exiting info’ but I am not a professional write.” I also thought that I have no writing talent but it turned out that I am not a looser as I thought before. Remember the first paragraph of this article? Yes, everyone in this world is a superstar! You know about it so convince the others of the truth of this idea.

First of all, take a sheet of paper and write down your strong characteristics (you can also type it in you WordPad but I prefer handwriting) then write down the weakest points of your character. Have you done it? Do you have more advantages then disadvantages? It really does not matte but still you are to find at least 2 strong point or it’s useless to continue our lesson. If you can not find anything positive in yourself – ask your friends, parents, relatives, pets (if they cam speak). Are you ready now? So we can start, look at your strongest feature of a character and remember something connected with which is alive in your mind. For example, I think that I am romantic, so I write down in the “some words about yourself” field that “one rainy summer day I wrote down a poem about a girl who makes smile and feel so happy. In a minute the sky was clear with the sun shinning bright. And now I’m here to find this girl which lives in my poem and in my lonely heart.” Now try to write something about yourself.
Do u have difficulties with it? Write your questions in comment and I will answer you.

Next time we will talk how to write the first letter to the girl you have chosen.

One secret to make your dating profile a success

Do u like this babe above? So do I. One day I fell in love with her when I found her profile on one dating site and did my best to meet her offline. But… it turned out that her name is Ewa Sonnet, a Polish model and singer, and a girl online just copied her photo to attract more attention. I was disappointed ant lost interest to this girl though she sent me her real photos and invited to meet her offline.

You can ask me: “Great photo, thanx! But why have you told us this story?”

The answer is simple: “Don not make the same mistake as this girl who pretended to be Ewa Sonnet!” When you fill your profile on a dating site write only true facts (of course, you can make them a bit brighter). If you love cats – write about it. Why? Because if a babe you’ve met online ask you about it, you can tell interesting facts. And the main thing – post ONLY real photos but… It’s not so simple as think:

• don’t post photos where you are not alone or with your girl-friend (it’s always difficult to explain where you are in the photo and a great minus as 80% of girls do not respond to your profile with a group photo);


• don’t post photos of low quality (I hope you (or one of friends) have a digital photo-camera so make a good photo of your own);


• it’s better to post 2 or three photos (she would have a chance to examine you from all sides);


• do not forget about your clothes, it’s better not to post nude photos (it possible if you place your profile on special sites). The best thing if your clothes will strengthen your best qualities and hide your weak points (you can send her you nude photos later or strip at the end of your first date);


• make the optimal size of your photos;


• write something down (a slogan or your motto) on one of your photos (PhotoShop program will help you) to make it more attractive.
  

That’s all for today, next time I will tell you what you should write in “A few words bout yourself” field. Thank you, post your comments to make my posts more interactive.

Five easy steps to meet a girl online

So, let's start. I have written before that online dating is really easy!

But you should be self confident and ready to spend some time on it but you won't be disappointed.

The first step.
Visit http://google.com/ and enter something like this "online dating". Oh, great! Thousands of sites where you can find any babe you want. Surf some of these sites and choose the one you like more and where you feel calm and happy.

The second step.
We have chosen a dating site so we can register and fill you profile. Write only true facts about yourself and post you real photos!!! I'm not a handsome guy (a bit later, perhaps, I will post my photo) but still I always meet smart beauties and they love me as i am frank. Remember, your main target to meet her offline and it will be a bit confusing if your appearance is not the same as in you profile. Don't be shy and do not hesitate to write about your hobbies. But one thing, do not fill your phone number. In my next article, I will explain you in details how to fill your profile to be a success.

The third step.
We are registered now. So there are two ways:
1. just wait when a sexy babe finds your portfile and writes down to you
2. find this sexy babe. I
hate waiting so usually it's me who starts. You should know exactly who you are looking for. It's useless to send "hello massages" to every girl registered on a website. It does not matter if you want to find a blonde teen or a brunette milf lady. As for me I love different girls so every time I'm looking for something new. Every dating site has a search system which will help you to find a girl according to your parameters. Just fill the gaps and click a "search" button. Wow, such a great deal of horny babes just waiting for you! But don't be in a hurry, i advise you to sort the results according to the date of registration. Choose those who were registered a week or two weeks ago. Believe me it the best audience, don't choose those who were just registered unless you really feel that she is your fate and you can not live without her :-)

The fourth step.
Now we are ready to send the first message. Never send short "hello" messages with one or two words, it's the easiest way to receive no answer. Look at her photo and read her portfile, imagine that she is next to you and write something outstanding. As for me I prefer to write a few words about her appearance and how we can spend time together (it will help you to make her answer your letter). Don't write much about yourself, leave it for her to ask you. Send several letters to girls you have found and wait for their replies. I can say that I receive 3 answers to 7 letters. My result is average as I am not a dandy. Perhaps you will have better results.

The fifth step.
Now you know very much (for me it's 5-7 letters) about your date and ready to invite her to meet. Of course, if she lives in your town (that's why you'd better to search for babes from your region if you want to spend sweet hours with your online date in offline). And it's the most important thing how to write about it correctly and move your relations on a new level...

This step needs more time, so read about it in my next article.

Meet a girl online: it's really easy

I've started this blog, because i'm a profi in dating online and i want to share my experience to make you happy.

Have you ever tried to meet a girl online?
Was it a success?
Have you met with her in real world afterwards?

As for me, i can say three "yes" and if want to become a real profi in online dating, read my blog to find the answers to your questions.